Reverting to Islam is one of the most beautiful and life-changing decisions you can make. It brings peace, purpose, and a connection to Allah (swt). But, like any big journey, there are lessons you only learn along the way. Looking back, here are 6 things I wish I knew before I took my shahada. I hope sharing these will help you as you walk this blessed path.
1. It’s Okay Not to Be Perfect
When I first reverted, I thought I had to get everything right immediately—praying perfectly, dressing modestly, wearing the hija and understanding every rule. But the truth is, no one becomes a perfect Muslim overnight (or ever, because perfection is for Allah alone).
Islam is a journey, not a sprint. The important thing is to take it one step at a time. Start with what you can, and grow at your own pace. Allah knows your intentions and rewards your sincere efforts, no matter how small.🤗
Tip: Focus on mastering one thing at a time, like learning how to pray or reading Quran, before moving on to the next. Be kind to yourself!
2. Surrounding Yourself with the Right People Is Essential
Reverting can feel lonely at times, especially if your family or old friends don’t fully understand your decision. I wish I knew how important it is to find a supportive community. Having sisters in Islam who encourage you, answer your questions, and make you feel welcomed can make all the difference.
At the same time, be cautious of negativity or judgment. Not everyone understands that new Muslims are still learning. Seek out those who offer kindness, understanding, and genuine support.
Tip: Join online revert communities, attend local Islamic centers, or find a mentor who can guide you. Remember, even one good friend can be a source of strength.
3. Not Everyone Will Understand Your Journey
This ties closely to the previous piece of advice: Surrounding yourself with the right people is essential. While having a supportive community is invaluable, it’s equally important to recognize that not everyone in your life will fully understand your decision to revert to Islam.
Reverting to Islam is deeply personal, and not everyone will react positively. Some might question your choice, others may distance themselves, and a few might even criticize you. At first, this can feel disheartening, especially when it comes from people you care about.
What I’ve learned is that this is okay. Your journey to Islam is between you and Allah. While it’s natural to want others to understand and support you, their acceptance—or lack of it—does not define your faith or your worth as a Muslim.
Tip: Be patient and compassionate with those who may not understand. Share your journey when you feel ready, and set boundaries where needed. Most importantly, always remind yourself that your ultimate goal is to please Allah, not people. In time, some may come to accept or even admire your choice, but until then, lean on your faith and the support of those who uplift you.
4. It’s Okay to Ask Questions (A Lot of Them)
Before I reverted, I felt hesitant to ask questions about Islam. I didn’t want to seem like I didn’t “belong” or that I wasn’t serious about my decision. But the truth is, asking questions is one of the best ways to learn and grow.
Islam encourages seeking knowledge. In fact, asking questions shows your eagerness to understand and practice Islam better.
Tip: Don’t be afraid to approach an imam, a trusted friend, or even online communities with your questions. Write them down as they come to you, and tackle them one at a time.
5. Islam is About Balance, Not Extremes
When I first reverted, I thought I needed to make drastic changes all at once—changing my wardrobe, cutting ties with friends, or completely transforming my lifestyle. But Islam teaches balance (wasatiyyah), and it’s important not to overwhelm yourself.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “The best deeds are those done consistently, even if they are small.” (Sahih Bukhari)
It’s better to take small, consistent steps in your journey than to burn out trying to do everything perfectly from the start.
Tip: Focus on what brings you closer to Allah day by day, and remember that Islam is meant to bring ease, not hardship.
6. Every Struggle Comes with Immense Rewards
This was one of the hardest lessons to learn but also one of the most beautiful. Challenges will come—whether it’s learning how to pray, adjusting to a new lifestyle, or facing societal pressures—but every effort you make for the sake of Allah is met with immense reward.
Allah (swt) says: “Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.” (Quran 94:6) Each challenge is an opportunity to grow closer to Allah, strengthen your faith, and build resilience. What may feel difficult now will, over time, become second nature and a source of peace.
Tip: Whenever you feel discouraged, remind yourself that every small step, every struggle, and every act of patience brings you closer to Allah. Seek comfort in prayer, du’a, and the knowledge that Allah never burdens a soul beyond what it can bear. Your journey is a testament to your strength and devotion.
Final Thoughts
Reverting to Islam is a journey filled with both challenges and blessings. If I could go back and tell my pre-revert self anything, it would be: Take it slow, surround yourself with support, and trust that every struggle will bring you closer to Allah.
To my sisters who have recently reverted or are thinking about it: don’t rush, seek knowledge, and trust Allah’s plan for you. This journey is uniquely yours, and every step you take—no matter how small—is precious in the eyes of Allah.
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